Please remember that your donation is only for my time and companionship anything that happens in our time together is simply between two wonderfully connected friends that are consenting adults. Please put your donation in an unsealed envelope in Clear view upon your or my arrival. Or Be obvious and give it to me. Do not make me ask for it.
If we meet in public, then place the donation/ gift in a book or gift bag and hand to to me upon meeting/ greeting. Do not discuss the donation, it is a silent transfer.