Truly independent escorts, at least the smarter ones (quality girls that handle their own business and safety) will demand some sort of verification. Your a member of X site, verified by Y provider, etc. ( TER, ECCIE, others) Thing is, you loose a good chunk of anonymity. Part of the thrill is being the hobbyist is being able to select your favorite slice of pie, without giving much information about yourself.
For some providers ~you will have no choice here. These are the woman that are essentially at the high end of the rate scale. If your not looking to get verified, then forget these women. Focus on the other 95 % of the market that is flexible on the verification side.
If you can allow yourself to get verified, the hobbyist world is your oyster. The girls will have higher trust factor with a verified fella. Plus, getting verified opens yourself up to a level that is much enjoyable in the hobbyist world.
Let me take you into the escort’s perspective. The women, if marketed properly, will get hundreds of emails a day. Most of the guys love the idea of being with her, but have no money to do so. The rest want to, but only small percentage are verified. She will communicated with the verified inquiries first. Chances are she will “close” on one of those guys. The cycle will then repeats itself. Throw in some of her regulars, you truly need to be verified to have a shot to be on her schedule.
I would never see a new client without Verification, it is a must. Good clients understand that and appreciate it. Verification is easy with me. Fill out my secured Reservation form for Verification on my main page. Online verification or previous escort references are most important for effective verification~ but not mandatory. However, with enough personal information I would be very likely to accept your reservation. Deposits are required for travel and new friends without references, to hold our appointment.